كتاب شفاي زندگي لوييز هي دستم بود و مرتب يه جمله اش تو ذهنم نبض مي زد كه خشم آدم ها از ترسشونه.........

يك عالمه بار خشمگين شدم و يك عالمه بار خشم درونيم رو قورت دادم..............

و حالا تازه فهميدم چقدر مي ترسيدم از تنهايي.
حالا كمتر خشمگين ميشم. چون ديگه تنهايي آزارم نمي ده......

فروغ:
شفاي زندگي كتاب خوبيه. مخصوصن اگه يه وقت خوب بخونيش.
دوم اين كه من تازگي ها وقتي افسردگي ام مي ياد ، دچار خشم دروني مي شم.

سلام فروغ جون،
خوبین؟
نگرانتون شدم

salam foroogh jan,

salhast ke webloget ro mikhoonam, tooye kheili az postha engar khode mani, kheili jaha delam mikhad "to" basham, man ham mesle to gahi ba khodam daste be gariban misham, man ham mesle to mijooram... khodamo, zendegimo, atrafianamo... alan fahmidam ke ba in kar khodamo azab midam, nemitoonam behet begam che bokon che nakon, amma age delet khast in matno bekhoon va fekr kon, zendegi ro mishe kheili asoon tar az ina ham gereft azizam:) stop analyzing the life, live your life:*

Discussion with God
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God: Hello... Did you call me?
Me: Called you? No.. who is this?
God: This is GOD. I heard your prayers. So I thought I will chat.

Me: I do pray. Just makes me feel good. I am actually busy now. I am in the midst of something..
God: What are you busy at? Ants are busy too.

Me: Don't know. But I cant find free time. Life has become hectic. It's rush hour all the time.
God: Sure. Activity gets you busy. But productivity gets you results.
Activity consumes time. Productivity frees it.

Me: I understand. But I still cant figure it out.. By the way, I was not expecting YOU to buzz me on instant messaging chat.
God: Well I wanted to resolve your fight for time, by giving you some clarity. In this net era, I wanted to reach you through the medium you are comfortable with.

Me: Tell me, why has life become complicated now?
God: Stop analyzing life. Just live it. Analysis is what makes it complicated.

Me: why are we then constantly unhappy?
God: Your today is the tomorrow that you worried about yesterday. You are worrying because you are analyzing. Worrying has become your habit. That's why you are not happy.

Me: But how can we not worry when there is so much uncertainty?
God: Uncertainty is inevitable, but worrying is optional.

Me: But then, there is so much pain due to uncertainty. .
God: Pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional.

Me: If suffering is optional, why do good people always suffer?
God: Diamond cannot be polished without friction. Gold cannot be purified without fire. Good people go through trials, but don't suffer. With that experience their life becomes better not bitter.

Me: You mean to say such experience is useful?
God: Yes. In every terms, Experience is a hard teacher. She gives the test first and the lessons afterwards.

Me: But still, why should we go through such tests? Why can't we be free from problems?
God: Problems are Purposeful Roadblocks Offering Beneficial Lessons (to) Enhance Mental Strength. Inner strength comes from struggle and endurance, not when you are free from problems.

Me: Frankly in the midst of so many problems, we don't know where we are heading..
God: If you look outside you will not know where you are heading. Look inside. Looking outside, you dream. Looking inside, you awaken. Eyes provide sight. Heart provides insight.

Me: Sometimes not succeeding fast seems to hurt more than moving in the right direction. What should I do?
God: Success is a measure as decided by others. Satisfaction is a measure as decided by you.Knowing the road ahead is more satisfying than knowing you rode ahead. You work with the compass. Let others work with the clock.

Me: In tough times, how do you stay motivated?
God: Always look at how far you have come rather than how far you have to go. Always count your blessing, not what you are missing.

Me: What surprises you about people?
God: when they suffer they ask, "why me?" When they prosper, they never ask "Why me". Everyone wishes to have truth on their side, but few want
to be on the side of the truth.

Me: Sometimes I ask, who am I, why am I here. I can't get the answer.
God: Seek not to find who you are, but to determine who you want to be. Stop looking for a purpose as to why you are here. Create it. Life is not a process of discovery but a process of creation.

Me: How can I get the best out of life?
God: Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear.

Me: One last question. Sometimes I feel my prayers are not answered.
God: There are no unanswered prayers. At times the answer is NO.

Me: Thank you for this wonderful chat. I am so happy to start the New Day with a new sense of inspiration.
God: Well. Keep the faith and drop the fear. Don't believe your doubts and doubt your beliefs. Life is a mystery to solve, not a problem to resolve.

سلام
من آپم از شما دعوت مي شود به وبلاگ بنده بياييد
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سلام فروغ جان
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